Let me ask you something honest.

How many people did you message this week who never replied?

How many times did you work up the courage to share your opportunity — only to get hit with "I'm not interested," a polite dodge, or worse... silence?

How many nights have you gone to bed wondering if you're even cut out for this?

I know that feeling. I've been where you are.

I was a newspaper carrier as a kid — my first taste of being an entrepreneur. Then came McDonald's at 15, my first real 9-to-5. But something clicked early: by 16, I was in management and already training other people. I realized I wasn't built to follow a script. I was built to lead.

After 5 years in the Army — where leadership development became second nature — I came out and bounced through oil change shops, telemarketing rooms, and management gigs. Good jobs. Steady paychecks. But none of them were mine.

Then one day I opened the newspaper and saw an ad that changed everything:

"Earn $1,000+ per week."

Most people would've turned the page. I wondered if I could make it. So I showed up.

That decision led to over 20 years of business-to-business door-to-door sales. I ran offices. Trained teams. We all made serious money. And along the way — across 100,000+ doors — I studied one thing obsessively:

What makes a person go from "no thanks" to "tell me more" — without pressure, manipulation, or feeling like a used car salesman?

I knocked on over 100,000 doors to find the answer. And I did find it.

But first — let me show you what I found that doesn't work.

The Old Way Is Broken

If you've been in network marketing, coaching, or online selling for more than a few months, you've probably been taught some version of this:

And when none of that works — when your friends start avoiding you, when your warm market goes cold, when the rejection pile gets so tall you can't see over it — you're told the same thing:

"You just need to talk to more people."

No. You don't.

You need a completely different approach.

The problem was never your work ethic. It was never your product. And it wasn't your confidence. The problem was the system you were given.

You were handed a megaphone and told to chase people. What you actually needed was a magnet.

The Attraction-Based System

After 40 years and over 100,000 real conversations, I built something called The 7-Step Connection Flow.

It's not a script. It's not a funnel hack. It's not a social media trick.

It's a psychology-based framework for how human beings actually decide to trust someone, listen to them, and say yes — without ever feeling pushed.

Here's the core insight that took me decades to understand:

"People don't buy when they understand your product. They buy when they feel understood by you."
— Robert Blakely

The 7-Step Connection Flow teaches you how to create that feeling — naturally, authentically, and consistently — so enrolling people feels like a conversation between friends, not a sales pitch.

When you learn this system, something shifts. You stop chasing. You start attracting. And the people who come to you are already leaning in before you ever mention your business.

7 Steps. One Complete System.

Each step builds on the one before it. Together, they create the framework that replaced chasing with attracting — in my business and in the businesses of everyone I've taught it to.

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3 Conversation 🔒
4 State Change 🔒
5 Presentation 🔒
6 Check Backs 🔒
7 Enrollment 🔒

The step names are free. What happens inside each one — the psychology, the scripts, the techniques — that's inside the training.

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Everything from 40+ years in the field — every framework, every technique, every conversation principle — in one complete training you can start today.

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That's 10 deliverables — guides, scripts, worksheets, a 34-minute video walkthrough, and a full 10+ hour bootcamp — for Only $27.

Yes, the PDF and bootcamp are available free on their own. But the Complete package bundles everything together with the advanced scripts, closing strategies, and implementation tools you won't find anywhere else.

Don't Take My Word For It

Real people. Real results. Hear their stories.

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Is This Right For You?

This is for you if:

This is NOT for you if:

This system works. But you have to work it. I'll give you every tool, every script, every framework. What I can promise: when you implement these steps, the conversations get easier, the rejection disappears, and the results follow.

Want Me to Build It With You?

The training gives you the complete system. Everything you need to learn is there.

But I know from 40 years of coaching that implementation is where most people get stuck. You read the guide. You understand the concepts. But when it's time to have that first real conversation using the new framework — you freeze. You second-guess. You revert to the old way.

That's why I created The Inner Circle.

It includes the entire training course — every PDF, every script, every guide — plus live coaching where we implement it together. Every 1st and 3rd Saturday, I go live — teaching, coaching, answering questions, solving real problems in real time. This isn't a Facebook group where you post and hope. This is me, on camera, working through your specific situations with you.

Think of it this way: one membership, everything included — the playbook and the coach on the sideline calling the plays with you.

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Robert Blakely — Sales Psychology Coach

Meet The Blakester

I didn't learn sales psychology in a classroom. I learned it on porches, at kitchen tables, in parking lots, and in living rooms — over 100,000 of them.

From newspaper routes to McDonald's management at 16 to 5 years of Army leadership to 20+ years of business-to-business door-to-door sales — I've spent my entire life studying what makes people say yes. Not through tricks. Not through pressure. Through authentic human connection.

I've run offices, trained teams, and built a career on commission-only results. Now I work from home full-time, coaching others to sell more without being pushy — using the psychology I spent four decades refining in the field.

My frameworks — the State Change Technique, the Buying Line Concept, the 5 Conversations Per Hour Method — aren't theories. They're field-tested tools that have generated over $1 million in team sales.

And now they're yours.

Read my latest thinking on the Sales Psychology Blog →

"Comfort kills more dreams than failure ever could."
— Robert Blakely

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I'm not asking for a dime until you've seen what this system can do. Pick your starting point — both are completely free.

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Free PDF — the 14 reasons network marketers fail and the psychology-based approach that actually works. Includes a 7-Step overview.

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5-Day Connection Bootcamp

Free video training — nearly 2 hours per day of live teaching. That's 10+ hours of real coaching at zero cost.

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Yes, really free. I'd rather you experience this system firsthand than take my word for it.

Common Questions

What exactly do I get with the training?
The complete 7-Step Connection Flow system: comprehensive PDF guides covering branding through enrollment, a full 34-minute video walkthrough, word-for-word conversation scripts, implementation worksheets, advanced closing strategies, and a team training guide. This is the full reference library and implementation toolkit. Pricing starts at $7 (Basic) up to $27 (Complete with everything).
What's included in the free 5-Day Bootcamp?
Nearly 2 hours of live teaching per day — that's over 10 hours of real coaching at zero cost. Each day covers a different aspect of the 7-Step Connection Flow with implementation tasks. You can access it completely free as a standalone. It's also bundled into the $27 Complete training package alongside all the scripts, worksheets, guides, and advanced strategies.
Do I need the Inner Circle to get results?
No. You can buy the training standalone ($7-$27) and get great results on your own. But the Inner Circle includes the complete training plus live coaching, so if you're choosing between them, the Inner Circle gives you everything in one membership — the course, the community, and me coaching you personally.
What happens at the Monday Mastermind?
Every Monday I go live with the Inner Circle. I teach a focused topic — sales psychology, conversation strategy, mindset, team building — then open it for live Q&A. We've been running these consistently for over 4 years. Every session is recorded.
Will this work for my specific business?
If your business involves conversations and enrolling people — yes. The 7-Step Connection Flow is psychology-based, not industry-specific. Works for network marketing, coaching, consulting, online sales, direct sales, and service businesses.
How is this different from other sales trainings?
Most trainings teach what to say. I teach how to make people want to listen. Psychology-based, not script-based. You learn to read people, shift emotional states, and create genuine connection. That's why students stop getting rejected — they stop triggering the rejection response.
Can I cancel the Inner Circle anytime?
Yes. No contracts, no fees, no guilt. I recommend 90 days to truly internalize the system, but you're free to cancel anytime.
What if I'm brand new?
Even better. You haven't built bad habits. The 7-Step Connection Flow gives you a professional framework from day one — skip the awkward phase most people spend years stuck in.
Is the free PDF worth downloading?
"Flip The Script" covers the 14 reasons most network marketers fail and introduces the psychology-based approach. You also get a 7-Step overview. If that's all you ever get from me, it will still change how you think about selling.

Here's What I Know After 40 Years

The people who succeed aren't the loudest. They're not the pushiest. They're not the ones with the biggest following.

They're the ones who learned how to connect.

Connection is a skill. It can be learned. When you get good at it — everything changes. The conversations get easier. The enrollments get faster. The rejection disappears.

Not because you found a trick. Because you found the truth about how people work.

The system is here. The door is open.

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"Good, Better, Best — Never Let It Rest,
Until Your Good Is Better and Your Better Is Best."

— Robert Blakely, The Blakester 🦅